This web begins by asking candidates to agree to provide true and correct information about themselves. You must agree to never use foul or negative language or to use the website for promotional tactics. Such are grounds for deletion of your account, and even considered illegal activity, which I assume means law suits. Cant use the site for junk mail, spam, chain letters or any other commercial purposes. They suggest that you are signing such agreement to be responsible or liable for any content posted by third parties. You also agree it is your responsibility to do your own investigation of any parties, matches or users of their site and to verify if they are legitimate date seekers. I would assume that bookofmatches would have already done so in some fashion themselves, but apparently its your job not theirs to determine if other members are what they claim to be. In fact, the “strongly” caution you to be skeptical of ANY and ALL members and to verify their background. Well, you can do that on your own while taking a walk down the highway. All they provide is a list of names. A phone book would work too. No wonder their service is free. It cater only to single heterosexual adults looking for love or just friendship. Again, you must be 18 or older and that will be certified when you join and sign their agreement. The site is owned and operated by Internet Initiative Partners, LLC an Illinois Limited Liability Corp. Their agreement applies to all services they offer, separately or as a whole. Be aware that all information specified in your profile outside of your email address and password IS public information. Once you sign on youve agreed to that. Bookofmatches.com retains the right to share all of your personal info and demographics info with search engines that spider your profile – and to any reputable mailing list vendors. That would deter me instantly. Enough junk mail hits my box daily, But Im not looking for love. Still, the junk mailers sell everything and take advantage of every opportunity known to man, even if they have to make them up. Check all the requriements thoroughly in all the match making sites before joining. They all require it -some want more information than they need.